If you’ve been following the age gap dating trend, you’d have come to terms with a paradigm shift involving younger men and older women. Although the idea of cougar dating has been on for a while now, it was more sexual in nature. It is worth noting that older women no longer hesitate to date or marry men who are significantly younger to them. On the other hand, men have exhibited their willingness to accept older women.
Why is it that younger men are inclined to dating 40 plus women when they have tones of options in women of their age? Well, the following reasons will answer this query:
- They’re no longer under stress: Younger men who choose to date women of the same age bracket are always under the pressure of meeting their expectations. Being at the starting point of their long career, they’re always cautious about taking the next step. When the same person dates an older woman, he doesn’t have to worry about his earning potential as his partner will take care of this aspect. He doesn’t have to prove anything at that stage and is likelier to pursue his passion.
- No more drama: Men do hate drama, don’t they? Young girls tend to get frustrated at little things and expect their men to fulfill all their needless desires. Older women, on the other hand have their ducks in line and are more realistic. They have come to terms with their boyfriend’s potential and don’t force them to do anything beyond it. On the contrary, they do motivate their partners to give share to their dreams. She is independent and knows what exactly she is looking for in a partner.
- They have tones of experience: Regardless of whether you’re looking to climb up the corporate ladder or start up a venture on your own, her experience and business sense will help you progress. Younger women lack critical skills as well as experience of having dealt with sophisticated situations. Having dodged a lot of problems along her way to glory, she has come across tones of problems and knows how to deal with it. It is this experience that will help you excel.
- Sexual pleasure:You’re very unlikely to come across a 40 year old virgin. Most cougars have been in more relationships than one and know what makes them happy in bed. Younger women are inexperienced and you’d always be under pressure of satisfying her. Furthermore, she isn’t likely to be considerate about what you’re interested in. In case of older women, it works both ways. For her, your satisfaction is as important as hers and she do everything possible to ensure this happens.
Given the benefits of dating a 40 plus woman, it goes without saying that younger men are ditching women of the same age. While we don’t blame younger men for this trend, it eventually comes down to the personal preferences of the individual.